Wallies Story - A Story About Reinventing Yourself at Midlife Or at Any Age

I have met several people who have been a giftpicture framing department. Roux, upon receiving
in my life, allowing me to know that there is lifehis degree in Business Administration, joined the
after midlife and that I can continue to reinventfamily business full time to fine-tune the
myself at any age. Let me tell you about onebookkeeping system, upgrade the organization
such person.and expand to their second gallery downtown.
Her name was Wallie Laflamme from Calgary,Wallie has said many times that this was the
Canada and she was a master at the game ofhappiest time of her life, working side by side with
reinvention.her husband and son. They made an awesome
Wallie faced every challenge with courage andsales team and were a delight to watch in action
optimism. Since allowance money was notat one man shows.
available in Wallie's family, as a young teenagerThe gallery attracted top Canadian artists and she
she joined her sister and two brothers to form abecame very involved in the Calgary art scene
band. They earned their own spending moneywhich was booming along with the oil industry. She
playing at school dances and community halls. Thisgave lectures on the "Art of Framing", instituted
was a big help to her family surviving thethe use of color and triple mats and at night you
challenging 30's. When the band broke up, Walliewould find her hanging paintings in someone's
discovered that she loved working on women'shome.
hair and so her first career was born.Wallie smashed through every glass ceiling by
It was then that she moved to Calgary andholding prestigious positions: President of the
found a job looking after two children for herBrentwood Mall Merchant Association, President of
room and board while taking a professionalthe International Zonta Professional Business
hairstyling course. After graduation it wasn't longWomen's Club, and adjudicator for the Western
before her entrepreneurial spirit took hold and sheArt Auction at the Calgary Stampede, just to
had her own beauty salon, the Coiffure Bar. At aname a few.
time when women were not in the mainstreamAfter a stroke, two heart attacks and a triple
of business, Wallie, from that very young age,by-pass surgery she finally retired at age 65. She
thumbed her nose at the prejudices of the daydid continue with her volunteer work but never
and started to make her dreams come true. Newdid sit back in a rocking chair. She walked three to
techniques abounded and Wallie was on thefive miles every day, did aerobic exercise and
cutting edge teaching new hair colors andenjoyed having friends over for relaxing dinners.
permanent waves, without the use of electricity.She loved watching Dr Robert Schuler's "Hour of
(Now that's a scary thought!)Power" on TV early Sunday morning and then
On weekends you would find her demonstratinggoing to attend services at her favorite Unity
these new techniques at various hotels in Calgary,Church. Foch joined her in these activities as they
Medicine Hat, Lethbridge and Red Deer. Roux, theturned their retirement into a long past due
company, brought out the first shampoo rinsehoneymoon. She then experienced her only failure
with color and she loved the product so much inin life - she failed retirement!
fact, that she named her son after Mr. Roux.After attending a meeting where Dr Wentz,
(Thank goodness it wasn't Clairol or Revlon).(founder of the Usana Health Science
Wallie made a move to Edmonton and opened aCorporation), described his vision of a healthy
salon where she also taught cold waving and thenfuture for everyone, by using his cellular nutrition
a revolutionary technique for bleaching hair toformula, she knew that her third career was
silver. This is where a John Powers of New Yorkabout to take off.
model asked Wallie to do the hairstyle andConvinced that her remarkable health
makeup for all her models. This expanded to doingimprovement was the direct result of these
the Juilliard modeling school too and Wallie woundnutritional supplements, she became a walking
up doing some modeling herself.poster child for good health. Beginning this new
She met a dashing young man who was the verycareer at the age of 73, her example inspired
image of movie star Don Amache, instantly fell inmany people to join her in a quest to "Live life to
love and in short order they got married onthe fullest every day". This quickly multiplied into
February 8th, 1950. After the pregnancy fromher becoming a Usana Gold Director which was
hell, she gave birth to their only son and hopedthe culmination of a seven decade successful
for smooth sailing.business career.
Again following her independent spirit they openedWallie did live a full life in every respect: always
a new business in Peace River but unfortunatelystriving to enrich herself spiritually and intellectually,
this was a bad investment that left themloving her work, and adoring Foch, Roux and
penniless and out of work.Kippy.
As she proved countless times throughout her lifeWallie's kindness, genuineness and depth of
nothing could keep her down for long, so with thecharacter continue to shine through to reach
help of wonderful friends she soon openedpeople everywhere who remember her for her
another beauty salon which began her challenge tosharing nature, no matter what the situation.
balance career and motherhood. She eventuallyNeither gender nor age was a factor that
owned several beauty salons before becominghindered her desire to be better, accomplish
chronically ill. She was diagnosed with severemore, do the impossible or get to everything on
allergies caused by the chemical fumes andher life's To-Do list.
solutions she had been using.Wallie made a rare and noble contribution to
After 25 years in a much loved career and at theeveryone's evolving spirit. She set an amazing
start of midlife, at the age of 45, she reinventedexample of a reinvented life at any age and for
herself to launch her second career by openingthose of us who knew and loved her--she graced
LaFlamme Fine Art Galleries in the Brentwood Mall.our lives.
Wallie looked upon this adventure as anWally passed away peacefully with her loving
opportunity to use the many artistic talents shefamily by her side Friday, October 24, 2008 at
had acquired along the way. To round out thethe age of 85.
gallery, Foch joined Wallie and opened a custom