What Kids Know And What Adults Have Forgotten: The Value of Playing

Is there a natural value to playing that we asAs soon as I was through eating, I began playing,
adults have somehow managed to forget? Doesand continued to do so until the patients arrived;
it serve some higher function, other than justand if I was finished with my work early enough
learning?in the evening, I went back to building. In the
Kids seem to figure out play all by themselves. Allcourse of this activity my thoughts clarified, and I
over the world, young kids will invent games andwas able to grasp the fantasies whose presence
stuff, playing with whatever they happen to havein myself I dimly felt.
handy and go at it for hours on end. In theNaturally, I thought about the significance of what
process, they have a lot of fun and happiness,I was doing, and asked myself, "Now, really, what
regardless of how crappy the rest of their livesare you about? You are building a small town, and
are.doing it as if it were a rite!" I had no answer to
But as adults, we seem to lose that childish spiritmy question, only the inner certainty that I was
and pretty much stop playing games the way weon the way to discovering my own myth. For the
used to when we were kids. If we do playbuilding game was only a beginning. It released a
something, it's often some form of sport, orstream of fantasies which I later carefully wrote
some other board game that often limits thedown.
imagination by having a defined set of rules thatThis sort of thing has been consistent with me,
has to be followed. More and more these days,and at any time in my later life when I came up
people are turning to things like video gamesagainst a blank wall I painted a picture or hewed
which, while they are fun to play, don't force usstone. Each such experience proved to be a rite
to use our imaginations at all.d'entrée for the ideas and works that
Kids don't seem to need to worry about that sortfollowed hard upon it.
of thing. They're happy to run around, playingI think what Jung was saying is that the value of
soldiers or cowboys and indians or whateverplay is that it seems to unleash something within
happens to take their fancy at the time. If theyour own minds that helps us in our day-to-day
have toy cars, they'll build elaborate roads andexistence. It may be that it just fires up our own
jusy drive the cars around for ages.creativity and helps us be more open to different
What purpose do these sorts of childish gamesways of thinking about things. As adults, we stop
serve? I think it's got something to do withdoing such things and find our minds closed to
developing and using our imaginations. Kids findnew ideas and our creativities hampered by rigid
that creativity comes naturally to them. They'llthinking and habits, which is usually to our
build stuff out of whatever happens to be around,detriment.
or they'll invent elaborate stories for their gamesSo maybe we should all take some time and do
and everything that goes along with that.what Jung did: get out and start having fun the
Carl Jung, the famous Swiss psychiatrist, talksway we did when we were kids. Throw away
about his own experiences with play in histhe rules and start inventing stuff again, simply for
autobiography, Memories, Dreams, Reflections. Hethe sheer joy of it. If nothing else, it might help
writes:you relax.