Work on Making Patience a Habit

Are we born with patience, is it learned over thethat you could have handled it in a better way. If
years or both? It has been said that patience is ayou are a parent of a small child or a teenager,
virtue. This is very true. We all have times in ourthere will definitely be times when your patience
life when a situation or a person will try ourseems to run out. Sometimes you can think back
patience.to when you were their age, how did you act?
When you are driving and someone cuts you off.This may get you to think twice before you lose
Do you spout off obscenities, holler at them oryour temper. Remember that teenagers can
speed up to cut them off? When we do this doessometimes be right too.
it really make us feel better? How many timesIt could be that you have been waiting a very
have you accidentally cut some one else offlong time for something special, or you have an
because you weren't paying attention? Do you likeongoing situation in your family or at your place of
when someone does the rage thing with you?work and you feel you have waited long enough
When someone snaps at you, or yells at you,and your patience is running low. Instead of
how does that make you feel? Do you yell orgetting angry or depressed about it, think it
snap back? Try using tact or humor in thethrough. I know for myself I ask God to please
situation. It really works. Then talk to yourself andgive me more patience in certain situations and it
go over it in your head. You will most likely findis amazing the peace that I feel.