My Career As A Hermit

"Work from home. Make big bucks in yourthe hermit remember when shower day arrives,
pajamas." - typical work-from-home ad.there is a simple four-part clinical procedure:
Quick. What do writers, stay-at-home parents and1. Lift arm.
online marketing geeks have in common? I mean,2. Insert nose.
besides insanity? They are all hermits.3. If you faint, it's time to shower (when you
The typical writer locks himself up for yearsregain consciousness).
brooding in a dark room, surfacing only long4. If you don't faint, schedule a shower -- as early
enough to find out who this year's American Idolas next week, if you have an opening.
is. This solitary brooding is supposed to help himPersonally, I apply a simple rule of thumb. As long
develop a keen sense of the human condition.as I spend more time showering each week than
Stay-at-home parents are prisoners in their ownI spend taking out the garbage, my wife probably
castles, as each child has a different toiletwon't divorce me. Unless I forget to take out the
schedule. And a different nap schedule. And agarbage...again.
different tantrum schedule. By the time they areHere are a few more tips for shower-challenged
all buttoned up in their snowsuits and hopefully nothermits everywhere:
needing the bathroom in the next fifteen minutes,- Wear cologne. Lots of it. Your partner will think
the stores are all closed.you did it just for her. Or him. Or it. If you wear
Online marketing geeks sit down to theirenough, the kids might even let you out.
computer screens in the morning. When they look- Wear many layers of thick clothes. Warning, if
up, they wonder how it got so dark. The nextyou live in Edmonton or Moscow this might force
time they look up, they wonder how it got soyou to open all the windows to keep from
light again.smelling even worse. If you live in Dallas or Delhi, it
What a sad bunch. What a sorry lot. Who wouldmight force you to close all your windows to
take on such careers?keep from smelling even worse.
I would.- Eat garlic for breakfast. If that doesn't work,
I'm a writer. I'm a Stay-at-home Dad. I'm an onlineeat garlic for lunch, too. And for dinner. And for
marketing geek. I'm ... Super Hermit!dessert. Nobody will notice your shower schedule,
"Get dressed."and the kids will definitely let you out.
"Why? Don't you like my pajamas anymore?"We professional hermits also lose touch with our
"You have to go out."friends.
"What?! Why would I do something so radical?""Hey David. How have you been? It's Al."
"It's Tuesday. You have a big outing.""Al? Al who?"
"Tuesday? Tuesday? What's Tuesday?""It's Al. Your friend."
"Garbage day.""I have a friend?"
In the country, three minutes to the road andIf working in your pajamas appeals to you,
back with the bags, then again with the recycling,perhaps to avoid being the next victim of the
qualifies as a big outing for a professional hermit."What Not to Wear at Work" TV crew, a career
In fact, that's more time than most couplesas a professional hermit is your ideal gig. Pick up a
spend each week being a couple.pen and paper, get yourself a second-hand
If this sounds like just the kind of self-inflicted blisscomputer, or borrow some kids.
you've been itching for, there are a few thingsIf you barricade yourself in your house long
you should know before making the big careerenough, you can enjoy your very own life of
switch.abnormal isolation and solitude. And everyone will
A dedicated hermit often skips a shower.know just what to buy you for Christmas -
Sometimes, the hermit gets away with it. To helppajamas.